It always
amazes me when people think that chronological age has anything to do
with anything. Once you are an adult, say voting age, how old you are is
completely irrelevant.
Some people I
know are reluctant to have friends who are more than a few years away
from their age – how limiting! I have really close friends who are half
my age and others who are nearly twice my age.
Many people
put an age limit on particular activities. How often do you hear “Oh I’m
too old for that”, or “That’s only for young people” or “I’m getting
close to retirement age” or “At my age I think I’d better slow down”. Or
perhaps worse “I won’t be able to take that step until I’m much older”,
or “People don’t achieve that until they are in the 50s or older.”
These
statements are all limiting. Your chronological age is completely
irrelevant to everything.
Critical
Principle 13: Your chronological age is completely irrelevant to
everything.
Let’s look at
some examples:
Nelson
Mandela became President of South Africa at 75 years of age.
Fauja Singh
ran a marathon in 2009 aged 98.
Ronald Reagan
became the governor of California at 61, and became US President at 69.
Gandhi was 61
when he and his followers marched 240 miles in 24 days to make their own
salt from the sea in defiance of British colonial laws and taxes.
Benjamin
Franklin played an instrumental role in drafting and signing the
Declaration of Independence when he was 70. At age 81, he signed the
Constitution of the United States of America.
Frank
McCourt, the author of the bestseller “Angela’s Ashes” first began to
write in his sixties.
Chaucer wrote
the Canterbury Tales between the ages of 54 and 61.
Germany’s
greatest literary figure Johann Wolfgang von Goethe completed “Faust” in
his eighties.
Sir Winston
Churchill was 66 when he became Prime Minister of the United Kingdom.
Ray Kroc was
a milkshake machine salesman until he met the McDonald brothers. In 1954
at age 52 Ray Kroc opened his first McDonalds restaurant. He was reputed
to be worth $500 million when he died.
Burt Munro
was a New Zealand motorcycle racer who set an under 1000cc world record
at the Bonneville Salt Flats (USA) on 26 August 1967. This record still
stands today. Burt Munro was 68 and was riding a 47 year old motorbike
when he set his record.
At age 69
Claude Monet completed the water lily painting, Le bassin aux nympheas.
The painting sold for US$61 million in 2008.
Leonardo Da
Vinci completed the Mona Lisa when he was 53. Walt Disney didn’t open
Disneyland until he was 54.
Jessica Tandy
won an Academy Award at age 80.
No matter how
“old” you think you are, your chronological age bears no relationship to
what you can achieve. In fact we should be expecting to do more, achieve
more, and impact the world more, the older we get. If you are just
starting out in life, you need to remember this. Set goals for the next
five and ten years. But in the back of your mind remember as your life
progresses you should be achieving bigger, greater and more significant
goals – and definitely not smaller and less significant goals.
In fact, a
recent study by Professor Mark Hart and three colleagues at Kingston
University Business School found that older entrepreneurs are more
likely to succeed in business than their younger counterparts. The study
showed that people between 50 and 65 are less likely to fail in
business, because they generally have more self-confidence, get better
treatment from the banks and have extensive experience, business
contacts and assets. The report stated: “Starting or buying a small
business could be one dream older people could fulfil once they have the
time and resources to choose for themselves.”
I like a
point made by Jack Canfield in his wonderful book “The Success
Principles”:
“In the
venture capital industry, a new statistic is emerging. If the founding
entrepreneur is 55 years old or over, the business has a 73% better
chance of survival. These older entrepreneurs have already learned from
their mistakes. They’re simply a better risk because through a lifetime
of learning from other failures, they have developed a knowledge base, a
skill set, and a self confidence that better enables them to move
through the obstacles to success.”
You should
keep this in the back of your mind as an option for the future. Your
learning experiences (failures) now are preparing a foundation for your
future successes.
Also of
course, youth is no barrier.
Paul Getty
made his first million dollars at age 24.
Budhia Singh
ran 40 miles (more than a marathon) in 2006. He was four and a half
years old.
Bill Gates
started Microsoft when he was 20 years old.
Christopher
Paolini became a New York Times Best Selling author at age 19 with his
first book “Eragon”.
Michael Dell
started Dell Computers when he was 19 years old.
Marjorie
Gestring won an Olympic gold medal in diving at 13 years of age. Steve
Jobs started Apple when he was 21 years old.
Lawrence
Bragg was 25 years old when he received the Nobel Prize for Physics.
Tatum O’Neal won an Academy Award at age 10.
Your age is
completely irrelevant. It has nothing to do with your health, your
wealth, your level of achievement, your friendships, or the activities
you choose to do.
Birthdays are
fun. You get to celebrate with your friends, eat cake and get presents.
But that is
the only thing birthdays are for. Never define what is possible or
permissible by how many or how few candles are on your cake!
Also, the
concept of “retirement” should not be part of your vocabulary. If you
are in a job that requires you to retire at a particular age, start
looking for an alternative.
You should
aim to do what you love until they carry you out in a box. If you are
doing what you love there is no reason to stop doing it.
It is very
important to watch your self talk as you go through life. I’m sure we
all know people who literally say “I’m getting old”, “I’m not as young
as I used to be”, I can’t keep up like I used to”, “At this time of my
life it’s time to slow down”, “We’re all slowly dying after age 25”.
These are self-damaging negative self talk statements.
Your body and
your nervous system absorb these words and slowly make them a reality! I
deliberately do the opposite.
Two of my
favourite self talk statements are:
“I’m healthy
and young.”
And
“My cells are
regenerating and keeping me young.”
I also like
statements that empower you on big scary birthdays: “40 is the new 25.”
“60 is the
new 40.”
“70 is the
new 50.”
Whatever
words come out of your mouth, or whatever thoughts you think about age,
make them positive and energizing.
Oh I should
also add that my goal is to live in a healthy and energized state until
I am 125. I tell myself this every morning, and I tell anyone who is
interested.
Because of this, my mind and my heart and my body are recruited into the
process of keeping me young, healthy, and energetic.