12 Rules For Being Human
DON‟T TRY TO be perfect. Just be an excellent example of being human. Here are a few things to keep in mind:
1. Growth requires pain.
Don’t be afraid to fall apart for a little while. Because when it happens, the situation will open an opportunity for you to grow and rebuild yourself into the brilliant person you are capable of being.
2. You will learn as long as you live.
There is no stage of life that does not contain new lessons. And as long as you follow your heart and never stop learning, you’ll turn not older, but newer every day.
3. There is a positive lesson in every life experience.
Don’t forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things don't go your way. If you make a mistake that sets you back a little, or a business deal or a relationship doesn’t work, it only means a new opportunity is out there waiting. And the lesson you just learned is the first step toward it.
4. True beauty lives under the skin.
When you start to really know someone, most of their physical characteristics vanish in your mind. You begin to dwell in their energy, recognize their scent, and appreciate their wit. You see only the essence of the person, not the shell. And that's why, when you really connect with a person's inner self, most physical imperfections become irrelevant.
5. Only you know what you're capable of.
Unless someone can look into the core of your heart and see the degree of your passion, or look into the depths of your soul and see the extent of your will, then they have no business telling you what you can or cannot achieve. Because while they may know the odds, they do not know you, and what you're capable of.
6. Your love creates your happiness.
The happiness you feel is in direct proportion to the love you give. When you love, you subconsciously strive to become better than you are. When you strive to become better than you are, everything around you becomes better too. During your youth, love will be your teacher; in your middle age, love will be your foundation; and in your old age, love will be your fondest memories and your greatest delight.
7. You earn respect by being respectful.
You earn respect by listening, acknowledging feelings, and treating others with the same respect you hope to get in return. So treat people the way you want to be treated. Talk to people the way you want to be talked to. Respect is earned, not given.
8. Negativity poisons the soul.
Don’t let needless drama and negativity stop you from being the best you can be. Avoid the drama, and focus on what truly matters. Let go of the things that are weighing you down. As you uncluttered your life, you will slowly free yourself to answer the callings of your inner spirit.
9. Your health is your life.
To truly be your best, you must give your body the fuel it needs. Toss the junk and fill your kitchen with fresh, whole foods. Run, swim, bike, walk—sweat! Good health is essential for having the energy, stamina, and outlook to tackle your goals and dreams.
10. Letting go is part of moving on to something better.
You will not get what you truly deserve if you’re too attached to the things you’re supposed to let go of. Sometimes you love, and you struggle, and you learn, and you move on. And that’s OK. You must be willing to let go of the life you planned for so you can enjoy the life that is waiting for you.
11. This moment is a gift.
The truth is, your whole life has been leading up to this moment. Think about that for a second. Every single thing you’ve gone through in life, every high, every low, and everything in between, has led you to this moment right now. This moment is priceless, and it’s the only moment guaranteed to you. This moment is your "life.” Don’t miss it.
12. Your choices design your life.
You have a choice every single day. Choose to appreciate what you have. Choose to make time for yourself. Choose to do something that
makes you smile. Choose to be excited. Choose to laugh at your own silliness. Choose to spend time with positive people. Choose to be persistent with your goals. Choose to try again and again. Within your choices lie all the tools and resources you need to design the life of your dreams; it's just a matter of choosing wisely.