Love 11 Ways To Become The Person You Love
YOU ARE POWERFUL when you believe in yourself. You are beautiful when your strength and determination shine as you follow your own path. You are unstoppable when you know you can fall down, pick yourself up, and move forward. Here are eleven ways to become the person you love:
1. Stop judging, and appreciate the beauty within you.
When it comes to being compassionate and non-judgemental, the only challenge greater than learning to walk a mile in someone else‟s shoes is learning to walk a lifetime comfortably in your own. In every human being there is soul, worth, and beauty—including in yourself.
2. Treat yourself the way you want others to treat you.
Accept yourself! Insecurity is what‟s ugly, not how you look or seem to others.
3. Care less about who you are to others.
Don‟t lose you in your search for acceptance from the outside. You have nothing to prove to anyone else. Care less about who you are to others and more about who you are to yourself.
4. Know your worth.
We often accept the love we think we deserve. It makes no sense to be second in someone's life, when you know you‟re good enough to be first in someone else‟s.
5. Don't rush intimate relationships.
Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates, or showing off. It‟s about being with a person who makes you happy in a way that no one else can. If you haven‟t found true love yet, don‟t settle. There is someone out there who will love you unconditionally—you just haven‟t found them yet.
6. Let go of those who aren't really there.
There are certain people who aren't meant to fit into your life no matter how much you want them to. Maybe a happy ending doesn't include anyone else right now. Maybe it‟s just you, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is simply letting go.
7. Forgive yourself and others.
Life begins where your fear and resentment end. When you forgive yourself and others, and stop the inner imprisonment, you free yourself to live with love and purpose—looking forward, not back.
8. Focus on the positive.
Our thoughts are the makers of our moods, the inventors of our dreams, and the creators of our will. That is why we must sort through them carefully and choose to respond only to those that will help us build the life we want, and the outlook we want to hold as we‟re living it.
9. Believe in the person you are capable of being.
The real purpose of your life is to evolve and grow into the whole person you are capable of being. Change really is always possible—there is no ability that can't be developed with experience. Don't ever let your negative beliefs stand in the way of your own improvement.
10. Work on goals you believe in.
Never put off or give up on a goal that‟s important to you. Not because you still have tomorrow to start or try again, but because you may not have tomorrow at all. Life is shorter than it sometimes seems. Follow your heart today.
11. Keep looking and moving forward.
Moving on doesn't mean you have forgotten, it means you have accepted what happened in the past and choose to continue living in the present. It doesn't mean giving up, it means you‟re giving yourself another chance by making a choice to be happy rather than hurt. Through all the challenges you have faced, you can now say, “I survived and I now know better for next time.”
In the end, loving yourself is about enjoying your life, trusting your own feelings, taking chances, losing and finding happiness, cherishing the memories, and learning from the past. Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting. Have faith that things will work out, maybe not exactly how you planned, but just how it‟s meant to be.